In modern day America, roughly 40% of Americans attend church at least once or almost once a week. However, only 20% of Americans regularly read the Bible.

This problem is not unique to our time. Commenting on the churchgoers of his day, Charles Spurgeon observed,

“Why is it that some Christians, although they hear many sermons, make but slow advances in the divine life? Because they neglect their closets, and do not thoughtfully meditate on God’s Word. They love the wheat, but they do not grind it; they would have the corn, but they will not go forth into the fields to gather it; the fruit hangs upon the tree, but they will not pluck it; the water flows at their feet, but they will not stoop to drink it.”

The biggest crisis facing American Christendom today is a crisis of relationship. Millions of Christians are content to look only to Christian literature and sermons for their spiritual growth, rather than cultivating a deep personal relationship with God.

The history of the Israelites reveals the tragic consequences of drifting from God. First, Israel settled for a superficial relationship with God. Next, they rebelled against God. Finally, future generations of Israelites payed the price. Just as this threefold progression towards apostasy affected the Israelites over 3,000 years ago, so it will affect our families today if we neglect personal time with the Lord.

A Superficial Relationship with God

After recording the Ten Commandments, Exodus 20:18 states,

“And all the people saw the thunderings, and the lightnings, and the noise of the trumpet, and the mountain smoking: and when the people saw it, they removed, and stood afar off. And they said unto Moses, speak thou with us, and we will hear: but let not God speak with us, lest we die.”

Sadly, God’s chosen people were afraid to hear the voice of the one who loved them most. When God spoke directly to them, they revealed that they would rather hear the voice of Moses than hear the voice of God. While “The people stood afar off… Moses drew near unto the thick darkness where God was.”

From a grief-filled heart, God declared to Moses, “Oh that there were such an heart in them, that they would fear me, and keep all my commandments always, that it might be well with them and their children for ever! Go say to them, Get you into your tents again. But as for thee, stand thou here by me, and I will speak unto thee…” (Deuteronomy 5:29-31).

The children of Israel remained content to hear God’s words through Moses their intermediary. Their behavior mirrors that of modern Christians who wish to hear God’s voice through a preacher on Sunday morning but not in their closets every day of the week.

Our relationship with God must run deeper than Sunday morning sermons. Tragically, if we fail to maintain a deep, personal relationship with God, our lives will not eternally impact our families or those around us.

Rebellion Against God

As Asaph recounts in Psalm 78, the Israelites soon forgot God’s works, succumbed to ingratitude, and provoked the very God who had delivered them from Egypt.

After contenting themselves with a superficial relationship with God, the Israelites ultimately rebelled against a God they hardly knew. Numbers 14 records the final step in their insurgency against God. After murmuring about food and water and worshipping a golden calf, they refused to enter the Promised Land.

Previous generations had lived, toiled, and died in slavery to the Egyptians without experiencing freedom. This “stubborn and rebellious generation” openly rebelled. In extreme irony, the generation God did the most for appreciated Him the least.

Until we spend time with God, we will continually rebel against His will to selfishly follows our own lusts. If we neglect our closets, like the Israelites, we will forget who God is and what He has done for us.

Loss of Future Generations

The rebellious generation perished in the Sinai desert. Though their children possessed Canaan, their later descendants ultimately followed in their footsteps.

Judges 2:10 records, “There arose another generation after them, which knew not the Lord, nor yet the works which He had done for Israel.” This generation was lost because their parents disobeyed God’s command to teach their children about the Lord and His works (Deuteronomy 6:6-7, Exodus 10:1-2).

Jugdes describes the vicous cycle of unfaithful and seemingly faithful generations. Israel’s shallow faithfulness was dependant on judges.

“And when the Lord raised them up judges, then the Lord was with the judge, and delivered them out of the hand of their enemies all the days of that judge… And it came to pass, when the judge was dead, that they returned, and corrupted themselves more than their fathers, in following other gods to serve them; they ceased not from their own doings, not from their evil way” (Judges 2:18-19).

Ultimately, the outcome of the battle of our relationship God will determine the fate of our children, our grandchildren, and generations to come. As my father often notes, “the true test of any family is fully seen, not in the children, but in the grandchildren and great-grandchildren.”

We cannot expect to raise godly children if we neglect time with God. Christ said, “Without me ye can do nothing” (John 15:5). Inevitably, future generations will be directly impacted by the depth of our relationship with God.

Rediscovering Real Christianity

Today, God is calling every Christian into a deeper relationship with Him. Like the Israelites, we can fearfully pull back, or, like Moses, we can draw nigh to God. Christ beckons, “Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me” (Revelation 3:20).

While strong churches are vitally important, churches cannot raise godly families; only faithful parents can. Today, God is calling every father to be a Moses for his family, raising his sons and daughters as Joshuas who will pass the faith on to the next generation.

Will you complacently rely on your parents, friends, or pastor’s faith? Or with Moses, will you cry out to the living God, “Show me thy glory” (Exodus 33:18).

On the results of that choice hang your effectiveness and the spiritual state of future generations.

Question: Why do we sometimes find it easier to listen to a sermon Sunday morning than to spend time with God Monday morning?


13 Comments

Jay · March 17, 2018 at 8:13 pm

I feel as if it is easier to listen to a trained minister read scripture, explain and then give examples of how to apply it in our lives. I fall short being in the word because I honestly don’t understand a lot of what I’m reading. Wish I could. I’m in my 50’s too so not like I’m a kid. Just never learned to “get it”.

Brittany · March 17, 2018 at 4:52 pm

Is your goal with this blog to reach ONLY Christians and ONLY have material relevant to those that are Christian? If so then this blog post, and your others, make sense. If that is NOT your goal, then your blog confuses me. Not all American’s read the bible because not all American’s believe that the bible is the word of God. There are Jewish people, people that read the Torah and don’t believe in Jesus. I can’t image what it must be like to go though life trying to convert everyone you meet, it must be really exhausting.

    Joshua Bontrager · March 20, 2018 at 2:47 pm

    Brittany,

    Great question! My primary goal is to challenge and encourage Christians to fully follow Christ (Luke 9:23). Through the posts, I strive to inspire and equip intentional Christians to know, live, and speak the truth (John 8:31-32).

    I don’t worry about converting everyone I meet, but I strive to be faithful with the opportunities God gives me. Though I have definitely blown it many times, I can truly say that there’s nothing more exciting than being an ambassador of Christ.

Bami · March 14, 2018 at 8:45 am

You are saying exactly what I have expressed to those who read many books about the Bible and not the Bible. For four decades I have read the entire Bible each year by reading 3 pages a day and marking that page with the symbol representing that year. I can hopscotch to any book or pages for any given day. I finish mid December each year. I argue I’d rather have the Holy Spirit teach me than persons who have an agenda to convince me of their opinion. God has taught me so much through the years! We are blessed to have a copy of His Words!!

    Joshua Bontrager · March 14, 2018 at 11:41 am

    Bami,

    Well said. Thanks for your thoughts!

Charity L. · March 13, 2018 at 10:14 pm

I needed this today! Too often I find myself relying on anthers faith and enjoying the fruit of their labour and walk with the Lord to feed my soul instead of cultivating the ground of my own heart and truly seeking the face of GOD. Thank you so much for the devotionals, they have really inspired and encouraged me in my spiritual walk with the Lord!

Chad Anderson · March 13, 2018 at 6:03 pm

Blessings y’all! I am thinking what is the why behind this all? What is the cause of it? Or how does the solution get generated?

What comes to mind is that this is an issue at the heart level.

    Chad Anderson · March 13, 2018 at 6:17 pm

    Another thing that really hit me was reading Deuteronomy 5:28 after what the Israelites had just said in the preceding passages. The NASB puts it, “…..they have done well in all that they have spoken.” I was thinking, did God hear what they had just said? What I am taking away from this in context is not that what they said was good, but that what they said was what was truly in their heart.

    Any thoughts, anyone?

Micah Everling · March 13, 2018 at 11:27 am

Hi Joshua,
Thanks for this well-needed post, and continuing to proclaim the truth through these challenging, thoughtful, articles. Another pitfall that I have fallen into personally, and know others that have fallen into, is superficially spending time with God. I would further add that of the 20% that regularly spend time with God, only half of those actually engage in trying to know him more, listening for his voice, and cultivating a desire for the Word.

    Joshua Bontrager · March 13, 2018 at 3:35 pm

    Micah,

    Like you, I easily fall into spending superficial time with God. It’s much easier for me to find a time and place than it is for me to fully seek the face of God. Thanks for your encouragement and insight!

Alicia Mae · March 13, 2018 at 10:15 am

Convicting. I think I should go pick up my Bible and do that morning study I keep putting off. Thank you, Joshua.

Ann · March 13, 2018 at 6:37 am

“Why do we sometimes find it easier to listen to a sermon Sunday morning than to spend time with God Monday morning?”

The short answer is that the discipline required to sit in church for an hour or two one day per week, is significantly less than what is required to make time with God a part of daily life. The former can often be driven by societal expectation, the latter is a choice driven solely by the person’s desire to deepen their faith.

P.S. I’m sorry for hijacking your blog last week.

    Joshua Bontrager · March 13, 2018 at 3:57 pm

    Ann,

    Thanks for your salient perspective. Your answer reminds me that we must always seek the praise of God above the praise of men (John 12:42-43).

    Thanks for your thoughts last week as well!

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